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Hi I am Joshua. I just wanted to reach out and invite anyone who wants someone to talk to to hit me up. We can share experiences and grievances. We can chat about life or about nothing is up to you. Single, married couple, Would love to hear from you!

I get very discouraged the longer we've been actively seeking (6-7 years). In the beginning, we knew we had found the absolute dream. She was shipped to Kuwait for a year and came back in one piece. Sadly she was killed in a training exercise not a month later. We still have a hard time with that separately.

Since then we have dealt with dishonesty, lack of chemistry, differing views on raising children, ghosting, aspirations that needed to be chased, and outright psychopaths. We are exhausted but we know this is where our family is supposed to be. We want the stability for our children, the extra love. We want to share everything with someone. We aren't unethical "unicorn hunters". We're too old to be risking one night stands anymore, atleast on a regular basis. 

My dilemma is how do we find this wonderful person? How do we find someone who wants what we want? I am honest from the get-go and yet we still have a miscommunication along the way. I am hoping for a resolution soon, to make someone happy with us.

Thank you for listening to my rant. I appreciate it.

Relationships is based off of the word relate. In order to build something or see if each other can become involved, you have to be able to communicate. What’s the purpose of being on this site or any other site that involves wanting to be in a relationship, if you do not know how to prioritize your time? Meeting each other and talking on the phone gives the parties involved a basis of how life maybe in that persons company. It’s too many hurt people that hurts people on this site and many others. Know what you want and “pursue” what you want period! Life is not complicated but indecisiveness causes complications. We hope everyone happiness and love ❤️