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 Seduction was on my mind today. Is it the same for men and wemon? To seduce in its basic definition is to attract powerfully. Our understanding and subsequent caring out of this seduction usually interacts with sex in some shape or form. We are taught that in order to utilize seduction effectively, actions that are rooted in sexuality must be weaponized to achieve a goal. Usually that goal is realized by getting another human being to comply with our wishes by motivating them sexually , be it sincere or not. Seduction isnt bad , I'm just reflecting on what we call in to make it happen. 

I believe the ability to weaponize sexuality with is auxiliary components like good looks is like a privilege in a way. And since many privileges are advantages not shared by all. In a society that tries it's best to make us feel bad about ourselves and our life style choices, appearances , status and personality.  The ability to feel you are ABLE to seduce is lost to many.

I think that attracting powerfully is more than sex and that if we had a heavier for who we are as people , feeling like one has the ability to seduce would fall more so in the nuances of the human experience .

Would you wrather call on the fleeting aspects of your existence or with who you are as a person.

Your amazing,  I'm amazing. Let's all be swayed by those who are dope, kind and are trying to make the world brighter

Brian (Dear)