Plural marriage as a practical instead of religious matter from Dani37's blog

After reading through a few blog posts on the site, I noticed that they all seem to come back to this idea that it's god's will or Christ's teachings that are guiding people to this path.  That's all fine and good, but I'm curious if there are others out there that are looking at this type a family unit from a more reasoned approach.  Just for clarification, I'm not suggesting that making choices based off of religious doctrine is impractical or unreasonable or whatever, but more that you are following a path that has been laid out before you.  Not having ever been religious, nor athiestic, I only have a layman's understanding of religion, so I can't and won't judge others based on their beliefs.

As for the practical side of things, I'm refering to basic pros and cons of this type of family.  The biggest appeal to me is the idea of 'more'.  More members of your tribe.  More real coonections.  More skills and ideas in your household.  More people to back you up and for you to back up.  More family members to share the challenges/burdons of child-rearing, home-ownership, and general living.  Now, the 'more' I speak of sounds self-serving, but it's a means to an end.  It allows you to have more time to devote to your loved ones, raise you children into better people, enjoy life, and help your family, friends, neighbors, and even strangers to enjoy their lives more too.  With mre people, each of you requires less time to devote to the ratrace of life, and therefore, more time to devote to yourself and each other.

In a world filled with societies that are seeming more and more predatory, there is strength in numbers, in unity.


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Synergy
May 19 '2021, 1:32 AM
I think there are a lot of us that are coming to polygamy from that perspective. ...not out of religion, but as a life choice.

To us, the 'more' you are referring to serves the whole, which is what makes it appealing to everyone involved.

More that you can depend on in an increasingly crazy world, and more that you can contribute to as part of something bigger than yourself.
I think there are a lot of us that are coming to polygamy from that perspective. ...not out of religion, but as a life choice.

To us, the 'more' you are referring to serves the whole, w...See more
Dani37
May 19 '2021, 6:09 PM
Yes, exactly. Well spoken.
NicanaCouple
Jul 11 '2021, 1:50 PM
100% agree with your post!
chipofftheoldblock
May 11 '2022, 4:43 AM
We can relate to this, great piece.
Ginamarie
May 4 '2023, 8:43 PM
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